That is not big, or clever. I shouldn’t have said half of what I said, and the half which needed saying should have been to the person’s face.
I can’t say enough how sorry I am that what I wrote made the person in question feel awkward with me. I take it all back whole-heartedly. She is a lovely person, and I appreciate having her in my life, and I hope that she knows that.
So I am not angry with anyone, but I am disappointed in myself. Very disappointed.